Saturday, November 22, 2008

Should we or shouldn't we...

That is the question as of lately...As we were getting ready for bed and talking about our day...BTW...Yay Utes!!!...anyways, the million dollar question came into play...Should we or shouldn't we have another baby? I say yes and Chris says no. His reasons being valid...money, timing, sanity, and money...Oh and money. Mine being, why not?...we have amazing kids and we have had sooo much fun with Jenner, why not one more? Chris isn't totally apposed to the idea but he is nervous about adding to our brood. Babies cost a lot of money and it means at least six more years of me not contributing substantially to the family finances...and I do have dreams and goals of my own...but, adding another baby means more happiness and blessings for our family. I don't know...Should we or Shouldn't we?

5 comments:

Rob and Jill said...

Do we get a vote in this decision?! Your kids are so cute and good natured. But I KNOW how EXPENSIVE they are to have. And that's just the getting them here part! Good luck.

Brooke said...

I think we ALL have that question. I am always wanting one more, but of course, the one who makes the money and pays all the bills has a different opinion. The thought of college, missions, weddings... IT is such a hard decision. Good luck.

Brenda said...

Whatever you decide, just have fun "trying". Opps. Did I just say that out loud? Tough choice . . . we kept procrastinating the decision until Fox was 5, and then it just seemed too big of a stretch between kids, unless we had multiples again. I was willing to try for twins, but the odds were against us. People are lucky to win the lottery just once in their lives. :)

Lara said...

That is a big decision. And you and your husband are both equal partners with equal say. So good luck with that :) I will say that I "knew" when I was done and I haven't regretted my decision.

The Belnaps said...

you totally should..It's just money after all. you can always earn more.